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Monday, January 28, 2008 ~Tere Liye Pyar se~





ruthney ki ada hum ko bhi aati hai mager..
kash koi hota humain bhi mananay wala...


kisi ke pyar mai gehri chot khai hai
wafa se pehle hi be-wafai payi hai
log to dua maangtey hain marne ki
per humne us ki yaadon mein jeeney ki kasam khai hai.....


dushmano mein bhi dost mila karte hain ...
kaanton mein bhi phool khila karte hain...
hum ko kanta samajh k chhod na dena
kaantey hi phoolon ki hifazat kiya kartain hain


deewane hoke hum milnay lage sanam jab say judey hain silsilay
ankhon say ruth kar neendein chali gayi na jaaney kaisay gul khilay
naa jaaney kaisey pyar hua
naa jaaney kab iqrar hua ke apni baat ban gai........!


main jab tumko bahut aane lagoon yaad chali aana..
bhool jana apni kahi har baat chali aana..
judai ka woh manzar woh manzar dhalte sooraj ka....
tumhain yaad aaye jab woh shaam chali aana


ab kya kahun tujh ko mohaabat nahi rahi...
teri talab main pahli si shidat nahi rahi ...
kya teri wafaon ka mausam badal gaya ...
ya tujh ko ab meri mohabbat ki zarorat nahi rahi...

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Seeshey Se Bani Ek Lardi...
Pathar Ke Naggar Main Aai..
Woh Dhoond Rahi Thi MoTi...
Aur Pathar Se Takrai..
Seeshey Se Bani Ek Larki Is Baat Se Hai Anjani....
Jab Raat Chamakti Hai Too...
Lagti Hai Woh Durr Se Pani...
Yeh Phool Hai Sab Kagaz...
Lekin Woh Samajh Na Pai...
Seeshey Se Bani Ek Lardi...
Pathar Ke Naggar Mei Aai...
Woh Dhond Rahi Thi MoTi..
Aur Pathar Se Takrai


Chaand to nikla hai magar yeh raat na hai pehli si,
Yeh mulaaqaat, mulaaqaat na hai pehli si,
Ranjh kuchh kum to hua aaj teray milne se,
Yeh alag baat ke yeh baat na hai pehli si.


badla woh waqt gehri rafaqat badal gayi
suraj dhala to saaye ki surat badal gayi


shaam hone se pehle lout aana ...
kisi k naam hone se pehle lout aana...
hum tere intezar main hain.....
anjaan hone se pehle lout aana...
subha-shaam rahti hai tere didar ki umeed...
din khatam hone se pehle lout aana...
agar na lout pao to bas itna kar dena
Meri zindagi khatam hone se pehle lout aana


hum koi waqt nahi hain humdum
jab bulaoge chalay aayegey


agar tum ik ansuu hotey to
apki aankho se beh kar marna pasand karte
or agar aap meri aankho ke ansuuu hote
to wada hai dost hum zindagi bhar na rotey


usne door rehne ka mashwara bhi likha hai
sath hi MUHABBAT ka wasta bhi likha haii
usne ye bhi likha hai mere ghar naa aana
or saaf lafzon main raasta bhi likha hai


tuney dekha hi nahi apni hatheli ko kabhi....
is main dhundli si ik lakeer meri bhi hai.


Humne Tumhara Itna Intezaar Kiya
Ki Zindagi Bhi Humse Ruth Kar Chali Gayi


Ek Umeed Hai Tere Aane Ki Apna Tujhe Banane Ki
Na Chain Hai Na Sukoon Hai Ye Kaisa Mera Haal Hai......... .....
Ratain Hogayein Hain Itni Lambi Jo Kaate Nahi Katteen
Na Bhook Hai Na Pyaas Hai Na Koi Aas Hai Na Koi Paas Hai
Bas Ek Tera Ehsaas Hai Jo Har Waqt Mere Sath Hai


na kabhi yeh chupaya ki pyar kitna hai
na kabhi yeh bataya ki dard kitna hai..
bas ik humein or us khuda ko maloom hai ......
ki unse mulaqaat ka intezar kitna hai


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Thursday, January 24, 2008 That's Love


If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ....then it's not love .. it's "Infatuation"



If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's "Compromise"



If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ... then it's not love.. it's "Inferiority complex"



If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings .. then it's not love .. it's "Charity"



If you love some one because you share every thing with him ... then it's not love... it's "Friendship"


BUT...

If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's "LOVE"



If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets... that's "LOVE"



If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ... that's "LOVE"



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~A Friend is~










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"The Key to Love"


"The key to love is understanding ...
The ability to comprehend not only the spoken word,
but those unspoken gestures,
the little things that say so much by themselves.

The key to love is forgiveness ....
to accept each others faults and pardon mistakes,
without forgetting, but with remembering
what you learn from them.

The key to love is sharing ...
Facing your good fortunes as well as the bad, together;
both conquering problems, forever searching for ways
to intensify your happiness.

The key to love is giving ...
with out thought of return,
but with the hope of just a simple smile,
and by giving in but never giving up.

The key to love is respect ...
realizing that you are two separate people, with different ideas;
that you don't belong to each other,
that you belong with each other, and share a mutual bond.

The key to love is inside us all ...
It takes time and patience to unlock all the ingredients
that will take you to its threshold;
it is the continual learning process that demands a lot of work ...
but the rewards are more than worth the effort ...
and that is the key to love."



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I am Near By





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why Guys can't win

If you work too hard, there is never any time for her.
If you don't work enough, you're a good-for-nothing bum.

If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, it's exploitation.
If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your butt and find something better.

If you get a promotion ahead of her, it's favoritism.
If she gets a job ahead of you, it's equal opportunity.

If you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment.
If you keep quiet, it's male indifference.

If you cry, you're a wimp.
If you don't, you're insensitive.

If you make a decision without consulting her, you're a control freak.
If she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman.

If you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy, that's manipulation.
If she asks you, it's a favor.

If you try to keep yourself in shape, you're self-centered.
If you don't, you're a slob.

If you buy her flowers, you're after something.
If you don't, you're not thoughtful.

If you're proud of your achievements, you're an egotist.
If you're not, you're not ambitious.

If she has a headache, she's tired.
If you have a headache, you don't love her anymore.

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Wednesday, January 23, 2008 - 10 Ways to Build a Good Relationship -

* BE A MAN OF YOUR WORD
A successful and strong relationship is one that is built on trust and dependability. If you tell a woman that you are going to do something, she will expect you to keep that commitment. Whether it's a date you've made for dinner, a promise to water her plants while she's on vacation, or a resolution to give up smoking, keeping a pledge is crucial in developing and nurturing a solid foundation for the future. Even if it is something that seems insignificant to you in the big scheme of things (i.e., returning a library book for her on your way home from work), a succession of forgetful moments will diminish her faith in you. Accordingly, if every time you promise to do something triggers a reaction on her part to have a Plan B just in case, it is only a matter of time before she starts seeking out a new companion with a better track record for reliability. Never make a promise unless it is one that you know you can keep.

*SHOW HER RESPECT
If you want to keep a special woman in your life, you need to not only let her know that you put her on a pedestal but that you are willing to defend her honor to be there. This means that you don't engage in gossip or divulge confidences, that you don't criticize or belittle her, and that your love life isn't an open book to anyone who's nosey. If up until now your priority has been to spend all your free hours with your football buddies, you may need to start rethinking your agenda. A woman who always takes second, third or last place to other relationships in your life isn't going to stay in the picture for very long. Showing respect also means fidelity to the relationship if you've both made a commitment to monogamy. If you can't stay faithful, you owe her the respect of freeing her to meet someone who will appreciate and honor the treasure that she is.

*LEAVE YOUR BAGGAGE AT THE DOOR
The last thing a woman wants is a whiner who does nothing but bemoan the fact that all of her predecessors--and probably life in general--treated him badly. While it's one thing for her to be initially sympathetic, it's draining to listen to the same sob stories day after day. Keep in mind that the more time you spend dwelling on the past, the less energy you'll have to spend building a new future. This also goes for men who talk incessantly about past relationships that were good. Whether the split came about as the result of death or divorce, women don't like to compete with the Ghosts of Relationships Past.

* ACCEPT HER AS SHE IS
Maybe your beloved would look better if she lost a couple pounds. Maybe she should update that hairdo and go for something snazzier. Maybe she'd look better on your arm if she wore different clothes. If you find yourself keeping a list of all the things she should be doing, you may be looking for a makeover project instead of a girlfriend or future wife. What you need to ask yourself is whether your barrage of suggestions is really meant to help her or to reinvent her into someone who would better define who you think you are. Women--and men--want to know that they're loved for themselves, not for an idealistic image that may be difficult to obtain. There's a right way and a wrong way to recommend improvement. To imply that you could love her more if she didn't have quite so many flaws is definitely the wrong way.

*DON'T BE POSSESSIVE
Do you call your girlfriend every hour of the day? Do you demand a thorough accounting of what she’s doing and who she’s seeing whenever she’s not with you? Are you purposely driving a wedge between her and her family and friends so you won’t have to share her? Do you discourage her from doing activities she really loves because you resent that you’re not a part of it? If your behavior fits these descriptions, it’s not love; it’s obsession. In concert with the advice to treat your lady with proper respect, you need to allow her the freedom to have time to spend on herself. Jealousy and possessiveness are unhealthy in any relationship and communicate that you are insecure, clingy, and potentially violent if you’re not the center of attention.

*DON'T RUSH ROMANCE
If you want a strong love connection, you need to start out with an equally strong “like” connection. It’s easy to rush headlong into a permanent relationship when you’re more excited about the prospect of being half of a couple than in enjoying the journey of discovering the things you have in common. Even if you’re sure that this is truly love at first sight and you don’t want to waste any time getting her in bed or off to the altar, a partnership that is meant to last will have a better chance if the man and woman invest in the value of friendship with one another. Consider the qualities and traits you admire in the people to whom you are close and apply those same tests in picking the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.

*PAY ATTENTION
Being a good partner means being a conscientious listener. It means not talking about yourself so much that she can never get a word in edgewise. It means that when she hints she’d really like a certain sweater for her birthday you don’t go out and buy her a CD of your favorite R&B singer instead. It also means that you’re sensitive to her moods, that you take an interest in projects she’s doing at work or problems she’s currently having with her siblings, and that you actually notice (and take action) if you see that one of her tires is low or that she comments on a new restaurant she’d like to try. Pay attention to the calendar, too. Remembering birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions demonstrates that she’s important enough to you that you know how to plan ahead.

* TRY NEW THINGS
Show an open mind when it comes to trying out new foods, activities, or ideas. While the two of you don’t have to share the same passion for every single thing that comes along, she’s far more likely to accompany you to a monster truck rally someday if you’ve accompanied her to a performance of the ballet. The fact that you show the willingness and curiosity to see what something is about instead of flatly dismissing it as stupid will accrue huge points in the sensitivity department. Why? Men and women tend to interpret the rejection of an idea as a rejection of them personally, a condition that will only fester with the passage of time. It should also be understood between the two of you that if the new whatever isn’t a good fit, it won’t continue to linger as a bone of contention. Trying it once—and respecting the outcome— is the most that either of you can ask.

*SHARE THE WORK
In today’s society, there is no such thing as “a woman’s job” or “a man’s job.” The fact that both parties put in a full day of work shouldn’t mean that it’s always the female’s job to cook the meals, set the table, wash the dishes and do the laundry. You may not be a gourmet chef but that shouldn’t stop you from picking up and dishing out Chinese food. Your gender also shouldn’t inhibit you from running the vacuum cleaner, walking the dog, or helping put postage stamps on the wedding invitations.

* CELEBRATE THE ORDINARY
Too many couples make the mistake of only pulling out all the stops for each other on vacations and special holidays. The rest of the time, they’re taking each other for granted. While it’s easy to say, “I love you” against an exotic backdrop or go overboard buying presents on Valentine’s Day, a happy relationship is one that celebrates itself every day of the year. Buy her a card “just because.” Schedule date nights…and keep them! Give her a foot rub when she’s had a rough day. Bring her lunch in bed and a favorite DVD when she’s under the weather. Let her know on a regular basis that she’s not only the love of your life but also the best friend you could ever have. Most of all, remember that “happily ever after” isn’t a destination but a journey to be taken hand in hand and heart to heart.

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How to Flirt

Not a natural flirt? Not to worry - anyone can learn the simple social skills that will attract others to you.

Steps:

1. Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

2. Smile, smile, smile.

3. Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.

4. Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.

5. Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person’s hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.

6. Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee’s job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.

7. Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don’t go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.

8. Gauge the person’s interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You’ve got nicer people to meet.

9. Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.

Tips:
Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don’t really need to.

Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you. Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.

Warnings:
Sexually suggestive remarks or touching are inappropriate among co-workers. Keep any office flirting G-rated at all times.

Tips from eHow Users:
Don’t let him forget
Reveal your best features of your personality, as well as your body. If you have long legs, show them off. If you’re funny, make him laugh. Talk about what the two of you have in common, and don’t forget to spice it up with your charming ways. After this, he will never be able to get you off of his mind.

How to flirt
Girls, look into his eyes and give him a cute smile, this always works.

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My New Avtaar





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